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Dr. Oz’s on Sex?

By on November 10, 2009

I was watching the Dr. OZ show and he was talking about a sex experiment he is trying for 90 days. The reason for this experiment is because we as Americans prioritize everything above their romantic partners, and as a result, the country is in the midst of a sexual famine. Dr. Oz wants you to have more sex and take part now in the National Sex Experiment. He wants you to learn how to reconnect with your partner by starting with small moments of intimacy and connectivity, before opening yourself up to the best sex of your life! His approach is two parts and the first part is as follows:

Part 1, Step 1: Start Talking
Turn off the TV and the computer. Get a timer, set it for 10 minutes – and talk to one another about one another. You are not allowed to talk about the kids, chores, finances or any other stresses. Talk about subjects that range from each other’s day to each other’s dreams. Do this every day.

Part 1, Step 2: Kiss and Cuddle
Set aside time to kiss and cuddle for 10 minutes, 3 times a week. No having sex during this time – it’s meant to rekindle your desire for foreplay and awaken your slumbering sexual desires.

Part 1, Step 3: Just Do It
Have sex once a week. It doesn’t have to be the best sex of your life, the most experimental or something from the Kama Sutra. But it DOES have to happen. You are carving out time for each other and making sex a weekly priority.

Well, good luck to everyone that is going to try this experiment, but I have a feeling that this just is not going to work. I believe that he is missing a key to the problem and that is that the sex has stopped between the couples because it just is not exciting anymore. No matter what they try, they are not going to fix the issues until they get to the root of the problem and that is “Erotic” sex. Fulfilling there desires and fantasies. It would have been great to hear one of the guest couples tell the truth about what is missing. You have to discuss your fantasies at some point in a relationship for the sex to continue and keep getting better and more exciting. Here is my saying that I tell people all the time; You can not eat steak everyday and continue to have it be steak, at some point it will start to taste like liver. What I am saying is, you can not be with the same person forever and have it be the best. After a while, it really starts to become boring and the same passion and erotic feelings are just not there – This is natural and you should not take it personally, it just happens.

The Fix, Part 1: Fantasy
The fix to this problem is talking to each other about your fantasies and what turns in your mind when you think about sex. I will continue to discuss this topic and outline the ways that people should approach this subject without breaking up their relationships and marriages. For now, just think about what it is that you really would love to do if given the chance in a safe and secure environment, and with approval form your significant other.

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