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Spanking 101

By on February 18, 2010

If you and your partner want to get started with a little spanking fun, make sure you open the lines of communication. Establish a safe word first. Always be sure to engage in a little dialogue before you try anything new. You’ll want to know which parts of your partner’s body are sensitive, and whether or not it’s okay for you to leave a mark.

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Let’s talk about your intentions before we get to the juicy stuff. If you want your partner to be punished, then you probably don’t need a warm-up session. Some people like to start out with slow, gentle caresses, then little smacks that get progressively harder and harder. The important thing to remember is to take your time, have fun and communicate.

When most people envision spanking, the first thing that comes into the mind is over-the-knee spanking. You can use variations of this method, where you can have your partner lean over the arm of a couch or over the side of the bed. Let your imagination run wild! Maybe you’re in a teacher/student role playing scenario. Make your bad student lean over your desk for a little discipline. Another position could be to have your partner grab their ankles. Of course, having your partner get on their hands and knees is another fun position to try. The key is to have your partner hold on to something or be in a position where they can brace themselves.

“You don’t have to spend a lot of money for a good spanking utensil”

The bare hand is a great way to get started, but you might find you’ll experience a stinging sensation on your hand after spanking. A leather glove can cushion your hand; besides, leather somehow adds an extra element of kink to the whole spanking experience.

Gloved or not, you can create different sensations with different shapes of your hand. If you hold your hand stiff with your fingers together, your partner will experience a sensation that feels like a paddle. Splay the fingers and let them be more flexible, and it’ll create a sensation that may feel like a tawse.

Feel free to explore other spanking implements, too. You don’t have to spend a lot of money for a good spanking utensil. Many items you find around the house can be used. For example, hairbrushes can deliver a really intense spanking. Even though they usually have a small area, they can deliver quite the sting! You can also use one of your belts; if you do, just be mindful of the buckle. Try doubling up the belt so it won’t wrap around and hit sensitive areas on your partner. Try other things to administer spankings, like a wooden spoon, a slipper, or a spatula.

To reach the threshold of pain, pick the fleshiest park on each side of the butt, and hit the spots on alternating sides. Change up your pace and rhythm. If you quickly crescendo your smacks, the pain will mount. Change it up by slowing down and talking to your partner in between smacks.

Spanking can be a fun, exciting form of foreplay. Be safe and have fun!

Check out these great books to learn more about the erotic art of spanking:

Domestic Discipline

Consensual Spanking

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